Nan Mustard's Recovery

This blog is a record of Erin (Nan) Mustard's recovery.

Friday, January 05, 2007

Nan is home again

Dear Friends and Family,

Long day, feel lousy, got a speeding ticket, fell during the afternoon inspection, still feel lousy.

But the good news is, Nan had a good experience with her procedure, minimal back pain this time, minimal bleeding. I left home at 7 this morning but had almost no traffic for the entire trip, arrived at 8:45 but Nan was not able to leave until 10:30. We drove directly home and in a area near Brentwood where the speed limit has changed recently I was clocked at 54 and the limit was 40. Jerk did not care to hear that we were on our way home from the hospital and Nan was in pain, just took forever and suggested traffic school could help keep it off my record. Nan kept saying, be nice to me as I was not feeling nice at all. I've been ill for a couple days getting worse, probably running some fever but really could not change our plans so just slugged my way through them. Nan was glad to finally get home and settled into her recliner with the heating cover Nikki gave her for Christmas and I built a little fire to raise the room temp some. I worked in for a bit and then had to go to Stockton to see a house for a relo company, they have been putting me off for two weeks it turns out. My day was really made when I discovered the house was round, almost impossible to measure and when I got there the owner told me I was the third appraiser, that the first two could not agree on the living area of the home, were 150 feet different in living area so I was hired at a rate of $500 to solve the difference. In the process of measuring I found myself start to slide and slip and the next thing I knew I was flat on my back in some mint bushes. Nothing broken, just a bit jarred and I smelled like mint the rest of the afternoon. Finally I could head home and was very glad to do so. Found Nan still in the chair so we just relaxed together for the rest of the evening. I had brought some fire wood home from Safeway but it does not want to burn, I think it is wet, our course to go with the day the box broke when I picked it up and wood spilled all over the floor, they gave me $4.00 off for the broken box.

So I'm heading to bed with a head that feels solid from side to side, ears hurt, throat hurts and I feel lousy in general. Tomorrow our normal rest day will take on new meaning, I really plan to rest, listen to music, try to temp Nan with some food, she had several nice meals in the hospital. I'm sorry to say I see no difference in the amount of leaking in the wound tonight. They were quite terrible at the hospital at dressing changing, Nan and I do it much better, 6 months of experience helps a lot.

We sat out 4 boxes of very good quality clothes for a charity that was picking up today but of course they didn't come and so the boxes are back in the front room to wait for another day or another charity.

Some days go better than others and I'd like to forget this one but I rejoice that Nan could come home, is feeling pretty good, that the medicine we have been begging for for the last 3 months to help build Nan's blood and possibly to ward off so many transfusions, that precious little vial came in our medical supplies today from Crescent. That is wonderful news, finally insurance company, pharmacy, doctors got it together and came through with the drug. Terri will give it to Nan on monday. Over the last 24 hours Nan has felt pretty good which is wonderful to see. I know she felt every bump in the road coming home today but she toughs it out and does not complain.

Please keep Nan's leaking in your prayers. It is still happening, not at the levels of a month ago but it is still there. I beg God to heal this up as He has healed many things before over the past year.

If you have special prayer requests please respond to the blog with them and we can all join together in talking to Jesus about them. I know of many people who are wrestling with huge medical issues right now and my heart goes to them.

I'd like to report that several lenders have paid on their accounts and we are now able to almost be up to date on at least some of our tax issues, the most critical ones. Loree reported a large amount was recently donated to recovery fund, this will come in handy very shortly when our new years deductibles come out, We thank you for your help, words do not begin to convey how much better I sleep knowing that some of the financial chasms are not so deep now. I want to especially thank Dona Want for sending a Safeway card to assist with groceries. Since our safeway is right down the street and I do the shopping I know how helpful that card is in our daily lives. Thanks so much. We are also grateful that over the last couple months work orders have continued to come in. Perspective is this, in 2003 we prepared nearly 3,000 reports and last year we prepared about 775 reports. That tells you how much things have changed and why we no longer have a thriving company of 8 people working together. Summer decided to have a baby and liked it so much she never appraised again, Kevin became an important manager over at E-loan, Ron is retiring to enjoy life, Jean is helping a lot with writing for me, Heather is busy with her boys but helps when she can and Steve and I work hard traveling all over the place to stay busy and generate income. It looks like I will need to head to Redding on monday for a very good client who is in a jam, now that is a long trip for one appraisal but she has been our faithful client for many many years. Nan has decided to allow her license to expire, it costs hundreds of dollars for the classes and then hundreds more for the license itself and she has not practiced at appraising for several years. It is a hard decision but probably a wise one in light of her recovering status.

Even on hard days there are bright moments. Driving in this morning early I enjoyed the beautiful clear morning over San Francisco, the wind had blown all the junk away and the air was fresh and clear, the bay was beautiful. And seeing Nan's glowing face when I got there was the best sight of the day. Her blue eyes are something to enjoy!

Well, enough for now, we are sending our thanks for your special prayers for Nan's surgery. They did what they sat out to do, now we wait to see if the black fluid will diminish and eventually quit.

We send our love and appreciation for yours,

tim and nan

4 Comments:

  • At 7:09 AM, Anonymous Marilyn said…

    Tim and Nan
    I just had to laugh when reading your blog this morning. Not at you, but with you. Some days you should have just stayed in bed and this sounds like yesterday was one of those days for you, Tim. It's a good thing Sabbath comes around so we can rest and relax and let our bodies do their thing. God is good.

    Nan - I'm not hearing nausea in the blog and hoping it is better or even gone. So glad your surgery is behind you and you are on the way to recovery. I'll keep praying for the leaking to stop completely.

    Happy Sabbath you two - love, Marilyn

     
  • At 9:35 AM, Anonymous Bob & Carrol said…

    Hi Mustards,

    What a day Tim, I've had a few like that too. One time My day finished on the way Home from Escalon driving into the Sun a big Barn Owl flew right into My windshield shattering it and taking the outside mirror with it. What a mess that was.

    Gald to read that Nan is feeling a bit better hope much better is soon to come.

    You sound like a good day of rest is much needed. We will not be coming over today, Other things have come up that need Our attention here. We will call Sunday and see how things are going for You then.

    Much Love & Continued Prayers,

    Bob & Carrol.

     
  • At 12:17 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Tim, I had to giggle too at your story about falling at the round house! At least you smelled nice and fresh for the remainder of the day! Maybe the officer would have been nicer had you been minty when your paths crossed! Thinking of you both today...rest well, and feel better!
    With love to you both,

    Judy (Cate)

     
  • At 10:57 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hi Tim and Nan,
    While catching up on Sabbath reading this evening I came across this - Jere Patzer gave this answer when asked what he's learned during these long weeks of battling with lymphoma:
    "That suffering is indeed no respecter of persons.
    To live one day at a time, instead of five years in advance.
    That life beyond this moment is not guaranteed.
    That His grace is sufficient.
    That He gives His peace in the storm, not befrore the storm.
    That we have a very loving, supportive, praying family and church family and a myriad of friends, some of whom we haven't met.
    That the past is forgiven, the present is secure, the future is assured"
    Some of what he has learned are promises and truths that you can claim too- especially the part about the loving supportive praying family and friends.
    Now Tim this is from your voice of reason- Unless you feel lots lots better by Monday please rethink helping out in Redding. Right now Nan and her continuing healing is first priority and your being wiped out by doing good works for others will not help her at all. There will be time for good works and passing on some of the help you have recieved but it may not be Monday

    From one of your loving, supportive, praying friends
    Sylvia

     

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